High Five(s) & Down Low(s)by SR

A blog on the learning's and experiments of life and how to potentially be better at living.

Open Your Feet: the necessary strength

The below is a blog post from Karen Breneman who is here in Boston, interviewing a fellow student whom I practice with often.  Currently, I am practicing with Monica Marinoni at Ashtanga Yoga Boston while my teacher is in India (Monica is an old friend and teacher of mine).  As a result I don’t get to see Erin, but I will see her in March…and I just want her to know how much she inspires me. 

Anyone CAN practice Ashtanga.  But, not everyone will.

openyourfeet:

maitry adishu balani ||23||

मैत्र्यदिषु बलानि ॥२३॥

maitry-adiṣu balāni ||23||

Meditating on love (maitri) and the other positive attitudes (see ys 1.33) engenders the necessary strength. ||23||

Erin works product manager for a software company and juggles family life with her…

ashtangaillustrations:

 
Kapotasana adjustment. (15 vinyasa) Nasagrai dristi
Young guruji( Sri Krishna Patthabi Jois) in kapotasana. Adjusting by his guru, Krisnamacharya.
“Here doing…me. Krishnamacharya, my guru” Guruji mentioned in this historic image.www.youtube.com/watch?v=tPbrrXtFetQ
I absolutely LOVE what this picture tells us in terms of what we need to activate in this pose.  I am still confronting this posture with tons of humility.  Legs, bandhas, upper back, shoulders.  Every-time I enter this pose I become humble and my heart softens.

ashtangaillustrations:

 

Kapotasana adjustment. (15 vinyasa) Nasagrai dristi

Young guruji( Sri Krishna Patthabi Jois) in kapotasana. Adjusting by his guru, Krisnamacharya.

“Here doing…me. Krishnamacharya, my guru” Guruji mentioned in this historic image.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=tPbrrXtFetQ

I absolutely LOVE what this picture tells us in terms of what we need to activate in this pose.  I am still confronting this posture with tons of humility.  Legs, bandhas, upper back, shoulders.  Every-time I enter this pose I become humble and my heart softens.

Sunrise.
Total amateur shot - but the light….the light is so pretty.

Sunrise.

Total amateur shot - but the light….the light is so pretty.

When you don’t take yourself too seriously…you can do many things.  Reggie reminds me of this…he is hilarious. 

Be yourself. 

If you are funny - make people laugh.

Now.

Laugh.

One should remain as witness to whatever happens, adopting the attitude “Let whatever strange things happen, happen; let us see!

—Ramana Maharishi

Flow…most likely to occur when a person engages in a task with a moderate level challenge well matched to their current skill level.

—Quoted from one of my yoga teachers who quoted it…so I don’t know…I just like it. 

The mind is only a bundle of thoughts. The thoughts arise because there is the thinker. The thinker is the ego. The ego, if sought, will vanish automatically. The ego and the mind are the same. The ego is the root-thought from which all other thoughts arise. ~

—Padamalai, Verse 53.

The Art Of Practice: By Robin Neihardt

“Art is revealed when the difficult appears effortless.” - Mark Russell

Webster’s definition of practice: 1. A habit, custom or method of doing something. 2a. Repeated performance of an activity in order to learn or perfect a skill. b. Proficiency gained through repeated exercise. 3. Actual performance or use. 4. The exercise of a profession. 5. The business of a professional.

What do you practice? Are you a musician, athlete or dancer? Are you a professional, doctor or lawyer? Do you train people, horses, dogs? If you are a musician and are striving to improve, you practice your instrument and more or less, follow definition 2 above. As an athlete, you repeatedly perform an activity in order to learn and perfect a skill, again following definition 2. As a trainer, using definition 2 you would lead your trainee through repeated performance of an activity to achieve competence in performance. If you are a professional person, a doctor or a lawyer, you would generally concern yourself with definition 4, the exercise of a profession and you would probably have definition 5, the business of a professional. For the purpose of this book, Webster’s definition may apply, but there must be more, much more to drawn upon to successfully understand and implement the art of practice.

As we contemplate this endeavor called Practice, there are aspects to the Art of Practice that need to be considered and understood: spiritual, mental, emotional and physical. As we proceed, we will discuss all.

  • Spiritual: a person’s connection to Source Energy.
  • Mental: control of thinking and organization of thought.
  • Emotional: What are you feeling, and how you are feeling.
  • Physical: The movement of your body in your environment on the physical plane.

The way you practice, the way you train your body and mind or the way you train other’s bodies and minds is important for there is an optimal method of body movement in physical space. Joint movement and muscle tension must always be considered. There is an optimal way of thinking about the movement required to perform the specific activity you are practicing. Yes, this is essential. In addition to definitions 2 thru 5 of “practice”, much consideration has to be given to definition 1, a habit, custom or method of doing something. The ‘doing something’ I want to focus on in this book is the approach to practice by living and connecting to the source from whence we came. What we mentally and spiritually bring with us of Source Energy to our practice on the physical plane - into the world we find ourselves, will greatly determine the level of success of our practice.

This work is aimed at pointing a way for you to achieve and accomplish effortlessly with great joy. You create your own world through the power and clarity of your thoughts.

Source

To understand Source Energy, it can be helpful to first ask the question, “What is not Source Energy or what does not come from the source?” The answer is nothing, for all is Source Energy. Every galaxy, every solar system, every star, every planet and all the space in between is comprised of Source Energy. Every rock, plant and animal is Source energy. All things in this infinite universe are comprised of Source Energy. All things in this world are of source energy. It flows in and through all things. Source energy continually creates and sustains the universe from a perspective of goodness and abundance. Whether you are consciously aware of it or not, it flows into your being and creates your life experience.

A person becomes aware of Source Energy by choosing to be aware of it. You can live a life created by default beliefs and random thoughts, often feeling you have no control over this life. You may believe that what you are destined to be is in the hands of another being, worldly or other worldly. Conversely, you can decide that you determine your life by controlling your thoughts and, in essence, control the flow of Source Energy.

How do I know it exists?

How do you experience your connection to source? You discover your connection by deciding to discover this connection. You can learn to feel your connection with source through the practice of meditation. You reach it by withdrawing into the silence of your mind. You can only experience this silence by quieting your mind and stilling the constant din of your thoughts. If you do not or have never meditated, there is an excellent book and CD by Wayne Dyer that describes and explains JAPA meditation. It is titled, “In the Gap”

The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction states that people experience the corresponding manifestations of their predominant thoughts, feelings, words, and actions and that people therefore have direct control over reality and their lives through thought. A person’s thoughts (conscious and unconscious), emotions, beliefs and actions are said to attract corresponding positive and negative experiences “through the resonance of their energetic vibration.” Quite simply, the Law of Attraction can be stated, “like attracts like”.

Source Energy and the law of attraction exist and operate whether you are aware and in alignment or unaware and not aligned with the positive aspects of source. Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, you can achieve. With your thoughts, you can pre-determine your intellectual, emotional and physical state of being during practice and greatly affect the results. A thought you hold, by the law of attraction, will draw similar thoughts to it. These thoughts are collective and by continual thinking of them, beliefs are formed.

Believers in the Law of Attraction adhere to the statement by Buddha, “What you have become is the result of what you have thought”, and believe it is an expression of the idea that thoughts introduced into reality can attract like energy. In Hebrew Scripture, Proverbs 23:7 states: “As a man thinketh in his heart so is he.” In the West, the idea of “positive thinking” became popular during the 19th century. One of the earliest known formulations of the ideas now known as the Law of Attraction is contained in the 1906 book, Thought Vibration or the Law of Attraction in the Thought World by William Walker Atkinson, editor of New Thought magazine. In March 2006 a film named The Secret was developed around the “Law of Attraction”, and was later developed into a book by the same name.

Sourcery (Sorcery)

Sourcerer: One who consciously realizes the connection to Source Energy and actively participates in the creation of their life by thinking thoughts that align with source. Also know as a “peaceful warrior”.

Skill in Sourcery is essential to the art of practice, for without it, one can never realize their fullest potential. Consciously thinking thoughts that positively reinforce practice will create conditions that will maximize your efforts during practice. There are myriad ways to view practice and how you think about it will affect the quality of the results you achieve.

For example, what would you expect the ultimate outcome of continued practice sessions holding this internal dialogue?

“This piece is impossible to play! It will take me forever to learn this. I heard that performer play it, I will never be as good as they are. I can’t get my fingers to do that. I’ll never get this learned in time. I am exhausted just stumbling through it once. My hands are going to cramp all through this section. It is too difficult to memorize. I wish it were shorter. I hate doing this!”

What would you expect the outcome of practices holding these thoughts?

“As I practice today, I intend to feel good. I have the ability and technique to perform this piece flawlessly and effortlessly. I will be aware of any insights I may gain in performing this piece. I will feel my connection to Source and allow the energy to flow freely, bringing with it inspiration and understanding. I love to spend time in learning this art.”

Clarity

Clarity: Knowing with certainty the desired outcome and the process by which to achieve it; often, a knowledge gained by experiencing what you don’t want.

Truth

Good old Webster’s defines truth as follows: Truth: 1. accordance with knowledge, fact, or actuality. 2. The real state of affairs; fact. 3. Actuality; reality. 4. A statement that is or is accepted as being true.

Now, I have questions for you, is truth always true, is reality always an actuality, is truth the real state of affairs? Before you answer the questions, here are a few ideas once held as truth, the world is flat, only birds can fly, iron doesn’t float. Next, I would want to know if reality is described by truth or truth established by reality. Then I would want to know if there is only one reality that is real and thus always true. We could spend the rest of our lives right here talking and thinking in circles about truth and reality and existence. But let’s not. I will contend that there is universal truth that is always true, there is truth of the physical plane that is always true on the physical plane, like gravity.

Focus on understanding truth and reality should be done in a way that will serve us. I believe in universal truth, physical plane truth and personal truths, and I believe that there are myriad personal truths, myriad personal realities -as many as there are souls on earth. We create our reality by what we think, what our predominate thoughts are. Actually, our present reality is a result of past thoughts. Our future reality will be a result of the thoughts we chain together and establish as our beliefs now. Change your thoughts about practice and the results of practice and your practice will change.

Universal Truth: The creation and expansion of all that is by Source Energy.

The Truth About the Self:

  • 0. All the power that ever was or will be is here now.
  • 1. I am a center of expression for the primal will to good that creates and sustains the universe.
  • 2. Through me, its unfailing wisdom and understanding takes form in thought and word.
  • 3. Filled with Understanding of its perfect law, I am guided, moment by moment, along the path of liberation.
  • 4. From the exhaustless riches of its limitless substance, I draw all things needful, both spiritual and material.
  • 5. I recognize the manifestation of the undeviating justice in all the circumstances of my life.
  • 6. In all things great and small, I see the beauty of the divine expression.
  • 7. I look forward with confidence to the perfect realization of the eternal splendor of the limitless light.
  • 8. Living from that will, supported by its unfailing wisdom and understanding, mine is the victorious life.
  • 9. In thought and word and deed, I rest my life from day to day on the sure foundation of eternal being.
  • 10. The kingdom of spirit is embodied in my flesh.

Thoughts

Thoughts are things. Thoughts have power. Thoughts control source energy. You can consciously have a thought, and you can consciously add other similar thoughts together in a chain of thoughts. You can unconsciously have thoughts enter your mind, and you can unconsciously chain like thoughts together. Whether consciously or unconsciously you create your life through thought. A habitual chain of thoughts you hold and regularly recall are a belief. A belief can be created consciously or unconsciously and can be beneficial to what you want in your life or detrimental. At some point in your life, this life or a future life, you will have to decide which chains of thought, what beliefs serve you and which do not.

Studies have shown that a person can have as many as 60,000 thoughts a day. How many of the thoughts you think in a day are you aware of? How many of the thoughts you think in a day do you consciously think?

What are you thinking? What do you think about what others think about you? What do you think you know about what others think of you? What do you think about yourself? What do you think you know as being the truth about yourself? What does it matter?

Think thoughts that serve you, have beliefs that serve you and you will create a reality you will enjoy living. Think thoughts that enhance your practice and promote joyous performance, and the reality of your practice will greatly improve.

What are you feeling?

What are you feeling? Many go through the day in a mood, like “I’m in a bad mood.” or “I’m Bored”. But few actually are in touch with exactly what they are feeling. Are you consciously aware of what emotions you are having at any given moment of the day? It is beneficial to connect with the emotions you are feeling for they are your guidance system.

Do you know what causes the emotion you are feeling? An emotion is caused by a thought you are thinking. Through the law of attraction, a thought you think consciously or unconsciously will attract similar thoughts for you to think. As you think on the resulting chain of thoughts, you experience an emotional state somewhere on the emotional scale between depression and joy depending on the thought pattern you are in. Emotions let you know how your present thoughts are aligning with Source Energy. Thoughts that feel good are aligning with the truth of Source Energy, while feeling bad warns you that a thought you are thinking has a degree of non-alignment with source. Before a practice period, it is essential to determine the emotions you are feeling and if you are not experiencing happiness or joy, you should raise your emotions up the scale. You do this consciously by thinking a thought that elicits an emotion higher on the scale than the thought you were thinking. One of the best I have found is simply, “I want to feel good and I intend to feel good.” Hold that thought in your mind, and other similar thoughts of feeling good, by the law of attraction, will associate themselves in your consciousness; and your emotions will improve.

Raising your emotions and thus aligning your thoughts with Source Energy is the first step in practice. In fact, aligning with Source Energy is the Art of Practice. All inspiration, intuition and creativity flow to you from Source Energy. The more fully you are able to align with the Source, the more powerful will be the flow into your awareness.

Practice - Physically speaking:

Practice is the act of manifesting the perfection of Source Energy into movement and activity an individual intends to accomplish in the physical plane of existence.
The Art of practice: The process of preparing intellectually, emotionally, and physically to manifest the perfection of Source Energy into movement and activity an individual intends to accomplish in the physical plane of existence.
Practice: Fashioning the framework, developing the skills, scaling and perfecting movement and thought, in anticipation of the arrival of Source Energy; so as you invite in the flow, the wonder of performance occurs.

An excellent way to understand how to practice is observe the end result of your practice and think backwards through the practice, through the thought, to the Source Energy. Observe from the end, think from the end result. Play a piece you have worked on in practice for some time. Play it for someone. Critically analyze your performance and have someone also analyze it. Was it played effortlessly and beautifully? Was the intention of the composer transferred successfully to the listener? Did your fingers move surely and easily to each note and chord? Now think back to the practice of the piece. Was your practice done in a way to achieve the results desired in the performance?

When playing the classical guitar, the four fingers of the left hand and the thumb and fingers of the right hand produce the sound. The arms and wrists position the hands over the instrument. The shoulders support the arms, the torso supports the shoulders, the legs support and balance the torso. Now consider: “is there a best way to position the legs in relation to the torso, in relation to the shoulders, in relation to the arms, in relation to the wrist, for a finger to move effortlessly and accurately?” Answer: “yes, it is very important to know how the entire body relates to performing a specific action. Each action desired needs to be isolated and analyzed. You must know what muscles and joints are involved in each movement and what the most efficient and relaxed way is to achieve the desired movement. After identifying and understanding the most efficient and stable way to effect movement of, for example, your index finger, you must be careful in practice of that movement to only perform it as rapidly as you are able to without introducing any other movements or inducing any tensions into the body. Give careful attention to unnecessary tension building in the neck and shoulders. As you practice, don’t force your way through the exercise. When working on a piece of music, only play as long as you can maintain correct movements without any extra tension. If you notice your shoulders raising or neck tightening, stop immediately. Let your whole body relax and continue even if it is only 1 measure at a time, for once you have learned movements with unnecessary tension, it is very hard to later perform the piece without inducing tension. Induced, unnecessary tension affects flexibility of movement, the speed of movement and the amount of energy required to produce movement. Induced tension will color your interpretation of the music, and often can make it impossible to correctly perform the piece. Difficult sections must be worked at over and over without tension until they are effortless. The following line written by Dressage instructor and horse trainer, Mark Russell, about horse and rider in performance should be well considered:

“Art is revealed when the difficult appears effortless.” - Mark Russell

Courage

Courage: The ability to align with intention and act when vulnerable.

This definition is very meaningful to me, because I often have failed during the performance of what I have practiced by not acting with this courage. My tendency was to essentially give up power and control of performance by not being here, now, in the moment -by not relying on the pre-paving of the event I had done through practice and not inviting the source energy to flow and cause the performance. Instead, I have allowed my thoughts to race about randomly to what if(s) and what will they(s) - creating a cacophony of tension inducing, and scary thoughts and all the while giving the ego one more way to belittle. On the premise “I want to feel good, I want to feel God”, I must decide which approach to performance produces the desired result. Without an instant of hesitation, I can loudly proclaim that what I often have allowed in performance in the past is not the way to happiness and bliss! For the sake of emphasis I will re-live one last time my first concert at the conservatory.

I came to the Conservatory fresh from the Army after a tour in Vietnam and one in Korea. I was older than most students, less knowledgeable of music, and less secure on my chosen instrument. At the end of the first year, I was maintaining a 4.0 grade average and doing very well in my studies of the classical guitar, surprisingly well for my time on the instrument. It was now time for my first convocation in front of my peers.

A week before the performance, I got hives all over my body. As the day approached, I lived in fear. The minutes before I was to go out on stage, I threw up. My turn came and I walked out and sat down. The house lights were dim and the stage lights were bright, so I couldn’t see the audience, I only could hear and feel them there. I began, “I better have this instrument in tune, If I begin playing and it isn’t in tune, some one will laugh. My hands are shaking, why are my hands shaking? They are going to think I am a joke. I wonder if my professors are in the audience? What will they think of me? I wish I had more time to prepare, I’ll never make it. They are too quiet, they are holding their breath. I bet they all wish they could listen to someone else. Why are my hands shaking? Why can’t I find the first string? I must not wait too long before I begin the piece, they probably are wondering why I haven’t started playing.”

I did start playing, with hands shaking, and mind running wild. I got fifteen or twenty measures into the piece and forgot the music. I stumbled around a few notes and stopped playing. I could not remember what came next. So I started over. In about twenty measures or so, I lost my place and couldn’t remember the music. I stumbled around, grabbing desperately at the strings, and had to stop playing again. I now was in full panic and experiencing sheer terror. I began the piece again, hands shaking, sweat breaking out, shoulders tense, arms locked, fingers like lead, and made it nearly to the end, lost my way, skipped to the ending chords, ended my performance and fled from the stage. Thus, my career as a concert guitarist began!

Over the next couple of days, I thought about what had happened. I would pick up my guitar and play the piece flawlessly. I had been prepared, I played very well. I compared the convocation with my combat tour in Vietnam, where I actually was in danger of losing my life. I realized that playing in the concert was more terrifying to me. It has taken me a while to fully realize why.

When in dangerous circumstances in Vietnam, my focus was only on the immediate event, I was completely aware of each instant, each movement, every sound. My thoughts were not in the past or future, only in the moment. I was afraid, but not dwelling on it. I was clearly focused on now and the actions I needed to perform at that precise moment. I had no thought about what someone might think of me -my thought was only to do, right then, in that moment. In my first public performance, I was not in control of my thoughts and as a result, my emotions. I had no focus on the present moment, I cut back the flow of source with my fear and let my thoughts run wild in the future and the past.

I made a decision to continue performing and in fact majored in Guitar performance. I learned to change my thinking about performance and I learned to stop taking myself so seriously. I came to understand that I was a link from source energy, to composer, to performer, to audience, that the source energy that flowed through the music flowed through me from the composer to the audience. I began to realize that I was merely a conduit to transfer the source into the audience. I began to visualize a light energy flowing into me, then flowing into my hands and into the guitar, then out of the guitar and into the audience, and into their hearts and minds. When I realized that I only had to allow the flow of this energy through me, a great deal of pressure left my consciousness. My focus became how to allow a greater flow of energy into the listener.

(Source: robinneihardt.com)

Just because….it’s a rainy day and this kid totally inspired me to practice more.

7 Little Things That Make Life Effortless - from Leo Babauta

I was going to go on and on about keeping thing simple today…I taught a wonderful yoga class this morning, and by breaking things down and eliminating superfluous poses - I found my students much more in tune with their breath and less agitated. 

The below is from Leo Babauta’s website ZEN HABITS

1. Do less. This is my productivity mantra, and it’s counterintuitive. I actually don’t believe in productivity, but instead believe in doing the important things. Do less, and you’ll force yourself to choose between what’s just busywork, and what really matters. Life then becomes effortless, as you accomplish big things while being less busy.

2. Having less is lighter. Start asking yourself if you really need everything you have, or if you just have it out of fear. Start to let go of what you have, so it doesn’t own you. And then, as you have less, you feel lighter. It’s wonderful.

3. Let the little things go. People who struggle often fight over little things. We obsess over things that don’t really matter. We create resistance instead of letting things glide off us. Let the little things go, breathe, and move on to the important things.

4. Clean as you go. I haven’t written about this for a long time, but early in the life of Zen Habits I wrote about the habit of cleaning as you go. Instead of letting the cleaning pile up, put things away when you’re done. Wash your bowl. Wipe the counters clean as you pass them. Sweep up dirt when you notice it. By cleaning a little bit at a time, as you make messes, cleaning up becomes a breeze, and it’s never difficult. By the way, this applies to everything in life, not just cleaning.

5. Make small, gradual changes. Most people are too impatient to follow this advice — they want to do everything at once. We have so many changes to make, but we don’t want to wait a year for it all to happen. As a result, we often fail, and then feel crappy about it. Or we don’t start at all, because so many big changes is intimidating and overwhelming. I’ve learned the hard way that small changes are incredibly powerful, and they last longer. Gradual change leads to huge change, but slowly, and in a way that sticks. And it’s effortless.

6. Learn to focus on the things that matter. This is implied in the items above, but it’s so important I have to emphasize it. Swimming (or any physical activity for that matter) is best done when you do only the motions that matter, and eliminate the extraneous motions. Stop thrashing, start becoming more efficient and fluid. You do this by learning what matters, and cutting out the wasted activity.

7. Be compassionate. This makes dealing with others much more effortless. It also makes you feel better about yourself. People like you more, and you improve the lives of others. Make every dealing with another human being one where you practice compassion.

Does preaching consist in mounting a platform and haranguing the people around? Preaching is simple communication of Knowledge; it can really be done in silence only. ~

—The Spiritual Teaching of Ramana Maharshi

A Minute of Mindfulness - Lost Key Syndrome

It was late in the evening as I was brushing my teeth, I began going through the checklist of what I needed to the next morning.  Get up, get ready to teach yoga, make sure car keys are in their place.

This is a small list right?  Add a 2 1/2 month old to the picture - which is why preparing the night before has been critical.  You never know what’s going to happen.

This morning came with a quickness.  The 3am feeding turned into 4am.  I snoozed lightly until 5:30am - which means I overslept.  I like to be at the studio at 5:30 to have time to set up.  The good news - I live 5 minutes from the studio.  The bad news - I couldn’t find my keys.

The early morning foggy brain combined with the adrenaline that was beginning to kick in from the search left me ‘running around like a chicken with it’s head cut off’ (as my mother would appropriately say).  I did all the retracing…but what I didn’t do was find a moment to calm down. 

My husband awoke to join the search party.  Under the couch, in the diaper bag, in the laundry basket, in the car, in the pockets of the pants that I was wearing, you name it we looked (including inside the refrigerator).

I ended up having to ride my upstairs neighbors’ bicycle down to the studio to inform the students that there would be no class this morning.  The looks on their faces was enough to destroy me…they woke up early with intention and with discipline to come to practice, and there I was, the teacher - leaving them high and dry.  Can I say it?  Can I say the F word now?! I think I will- FUUUUUUUUCK!

I came home disappointed in myself for not taking the minute last night to just set myself up for the morning.  I sat on the couch sobbing and saying to myself - ‘WHY? Was it my focus on the child and shear exhaustion from the day that made me not do it?  Was I being lazy?  Shame on me right???  Can this really happen to anyone as much as it happens to me?  I seem to constantly misplace  my keys!!!’

After I calmed down I dug back into the diaper bag (it’s the only place I knew they could be)…and of course there they were…in the upper zipper compartment.  They were there the whole time.  Ready.  My ‘momnesia’, combined with just waking up, and adrenaline - made me hurry in my search - which allowed me to be mindless and not thorough. “It’s not the object that was lost…it was ME”!

A minute of mindfulness last night would of prevented all of this, the keys would of been on the hook - a minute of calm in the morning could of also prevented this.  Now, my mindfulness is to be good to myself.  To learn from this…and to not beat myself up. As I often say to my class as they are in Savasana - ‘let go of the successes and failures - they are temporary’.  This failure is something I am going to have to let go of,  otherwise…it’s going to be a really long day.

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

Steve Jobs

RIP

Expectations & Desires ~ Ramana Maharishi

The entire cosmos is a cooperative. The sun, the moon, and the stars live together as a cooperative. The same is true for humans and animals, trees, and the Earth. When we realize that the world is a mutual, interdependent, cooperative enterprise — then we can build a noble environment. If our lives are not based on this truth, then we shall perish.

—~Buddhadasa Bhikkhu